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Most Realtors Are Not Worth Your Time (Here’s Why)
Published 3 months ago • 4 min read
INSTA Insights: Edition #24
Yesterday’s Masterclass on “How to Get More Realtor Referrals — Guaranteed” was packed with actionable strategies.
Missed it? Reply to this email and I’ll send you the recording.
Want to make sure you don’t miss the next one? Register here—my next live Masterclass goes down on February 17.
Now let's get into my newsletter -INSTA Insights- where I deliver what busy loan officers really need: Inspiring success stories you can replicate, Network-building strategies that actually work, Stats that make you sound smart (and help you close more deals), Tools that save you hours, and AI tips that put you ahead of the competition. All packed into a 5-minute read.
⚡️ [I]nspiration: One Year From “Now” Looks Like Luck
🤝 [N]etwork: The Pratfall Effect — Why Being Human Wins More Referrals
📈 [S]tats: The Mortgage Rate Lock-In Is Quietly Breaking
💡 [T]ips/Tricks: Not All Realtors Are Worth the Same Time
🤖 [A]I: Meet‑Ting — Book Meetings Directly From Your Inbox
⚡️ [I]nspiration: One Year From "Now" Looks Like Luck
You’re just one year of focus away from people calling you lucky.
Most people overestimate what they can do in a single day — and massively underestimate what they can do in a year. We expect instant results, then get discouraged when progress feels slow. But real transformation doesn’t happen in breakthroughs — it happens in quiet, daily consistency.
One year of focused effort can completely change your life.
One year of showing up when it’s inconvenient.
One year of doing the boring work when no one is watching.
One year of saying no to distractions that don’t move the needle.
One year of choosing clarity over chaos and intention over urgency.
The process won’t feel glamorous. There will be days when it feels like nothing is changing. But underneath the surface, something powerful is happening — momentum is compounding.
Then one day, the results show up all at once.
People won’t see the early mornings, the uncomfortable conversations, the reps you put in, or the discipline you held when it would’ve been easier to coast. They’ll just see the outcome and say, “You’re so lucky.”
But you’ll know the truth.
Luck is usually just focused effort, applied consistently, over time. And 2026 is long enough to change almost everything — if you stay focused.
🤝 [N]etwork: The Pratfall Effect — Why Being Human Wins More Referrals
There’s a well-known psychology principle called the Pratfall Effect: research shows that highly competent people become more likable when they reveal a small flaw or mistake.
Why? Because perfection creates distance. Humanity creates trust.
People don’t refer business to the most polished professional. They refer business to the person they trust when things don’t go perfectly.
Most loan officers try to sound flawless when talking to Realtors, CPAs, or clients. That can actually backfire.
Instead, use strategic imperfection:
Share a lesson from a deal that almost went sideways.
Mention a mistake you made early in your career and what it taught you.
Explain a risk you’ve systematized away so clients don’t experience it.
Example:
“Early on, I learned the hard way how important upfront documentation is. That’s why my process today is designed to prevent surprises.”
This doesn’t weaken your authority — it strengthens credibility.
People don’t refer perfection.
They refer people they trust under pressure.
📈 [S]tats: The Mortgage Rate Lock-In Is Quietly Breaking
When mortgage rates jumped from ~3% to ~7% in 2022, the housing market froze. Sales slowed, inventory tightened, and the idea of a permanent “rate lock-in” took hold. But new data suggests we may be hitting an important tipping point. As of Q3 2025, the share of homeowners with mortgage rates above 6% has now surpassed those sitting on ultra-low rates. Here’s what the shift looks like: Homeowners with rates at or above 6%: Then (Q1 2022): 6.99% Now (Q3 2025): 21.2% Homeowners with rates between 3% and 4%: Then: 40.48% Now: 31.5% Homeowners with rates at 3% or lower: Then: 24.58% Now: 20.0% What this means is simple: the pool of homeowners who feel permanently locked in is shrinking. For loan officers, this matters. More homeowners are already living with higher rates. Rate fear is slowly fading. Move-up decisions become less emotional and more lifestyle-driven. This opens the door for purchase conversations, sell-and-buy strategies, and long-term planning discussions — especially with clients who bought or refinanced after 2022.
💡[T]ips/Tricks: Not All Realtors Are Worth the Same Time
Here’s a stat most loan officers overlook: 71% of Realtors didn’t close a single deal in 2025. That number was 74% in 2024. Now imagine networking hard — coffee meetings, happy hours, events — feeling busy and productive, only to realize months later that many of the Realtors you invested time in were part of that 71%. That’s not a relationship problem. It’s a targeting problem. High-performing loan officers don’t network broadly. They network selectively. Before investing time, co-marketing, or follow-ups, use industry tools like Model Match to check Realtor production history. Five minutes of research can save months of unproductive relationship-building. Activity feels productive. Targeted activity is profitable.
⌛[A]I - Meet‑Ting — Book Meetings Directly From Your Inbox
Meet‑Ting is a free AI scheduling assistant that works directly inside your email inbox — no apps, no downloads, no booking links. Here’s how it works: Simply CC Meet‑Ting on any email thread where you’re trying to schedule a meeting. The AI reads the conversation, checks your calendar availability, proposes times, and sends the calendar invite once confirmed. That’s it. For loan officers juggling Realtors, clients, and referral partners, this removes endless back-and-forth and keeps momentum high. Scheduling becomes as easy as sending an email — freeing up time for the conversations that actually drive revenue.
Curious what it really takes for loan officers to dominate in 2026? Get the exact strategies in my next webinar on 2/17.
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